While you won’t find a silver bullet here, I am going to offer five keys I believe all of us should consider when our sexual desire is getting in the way of the sexual experiences we long for. Sexual desire is fascinating, rich, complex and messy. And it would be awesome if desire could be wrapped up in a pretty, tidy little box of solutions. Women and health care providers alike crave a simple explanation for low desire. This is about her and her unique experience. If a woman is sitting in my office because her sexual desire is less than she thinks or wishes it was, the numbers are irrelevant. Frankly, I don’t spend a lot of energy trying to determine how many women experience difficulties with desire because I work with … individuals.

We don’t have a good handle on the actual numbers because low desire is defined in many different ways. hook, line and sinker.īut what happens when fairy tale and reality collide? Low sexual desire is a common challenge among women. Ah, the enchanting pixy dust known as sexual desire.

Getting in touch with your sexuality